祷告项目

才读了大概5页就必须停下来了。里头写的都是心里的烦恼，须更改，须改进，修补的。

很喜欢这篇：

"Times will come in life when you realise you've made a mistake. At that moment, you have two choices:you can swallow your pride and "pull a few nails," or you can foolishly continue your course, hoping the problem will go away. Most of the time the problem will only get worse. When you realise you've made a mistake, the best thing you can do is tear down the wall and start over."  

摘于I Kissed dating goodbye by Joshua Harris

其实以前就是没有采取行动， 所以白白的浪费了这么多年的青春，光阴。以前真的很笨。也许应该说是没有勇气吧。没关系，神是好的，一切不好的也都过去了。现在的我，在展望将来，对前途非常的期待。有了神在生命了，我不再害怕了。

好吧。好好的列下我的祷告项目：

1。让自己衷心悔改，了解自己的想法和态度。好好的反省自己的错处。

"The bible uses the word repent to describe turning from what's wrong and pursuing whats right. repentance is a change of direction based on change of heart. "

"Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death" 1 Corinthians 7:10

"...cultivate genuine, godly sorrow, and ask God to forgive then reverse (my ) sinful course."

2.Refocus my relationship with people around me. 对于身边朋友的态度需细心观察，不想影响朋友对自己的误解。有让朋友对自己会错意吗？什么最重要？纯洁，踏实，互相勉励的友情。

3。向神祷告，让生命里有位导师。Mentor.需要一个导师来给我神圣的劝告，指导和支持。

4。对于朋友和外来因素需要密切留意。

有一阵子，不敢看浪漫的电影或戏，因为怕自己会伤心。（那时刚分手）。现在也不想看，因为有时觉得道德很沦亡。才没认识多久就亲吻，上床。嗨，很要不得。

“Keep an eye on your influences. Who and what you listen to, read, and watch will either encourage or conflict with your commitment to pursue God's best in relationships"

"...she commented 'why doesn't that happen to me? commented on how dissatisfied she felt after watching romantic movies."

"does anything in your life cause that kind of discontentment?

soap operas? bcaz they encourage ungodly longings within you?

songs? because they mock your beliefs about purity?

music? they exalt a false definition of love?

whatever tempts you towards discontentment or compromise, don't put up with it. Tune it out. tune it off. 

..spending less time with certain people or choosing to spend time with them in different settings. Pray for those fiends and love them, but honestly assess their influence on you. And ask God to bring people into your life who will provide support for your standards and beliefs."

摘于I kissed dating goodbye b Joshua Harris

好啦。是时候去和上帝聊聊天了。再会。

今天的纽约很美。感谢神。